Deal With the Real World, Not the Ideal World

How do we come to understand other people?

It is important about how we make interspersions and inferences – it help us to predict the other person intention. Poor social skills often lead to stress and loneliness, which can bring negative affects.

Understanding others is a real-world knowledge, inaccessible to people with weak social skills.

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We help individuals eliminate the static that plagues communicative delivery - to persuade, sell, influence and communicate face-to-face with a clear message.

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Active Listening

That is fully concentrating on what is being said rather than just ‘hearing’ the message of the speaker. Active listening involves listening with all senses. As well as giving full attention to the speaker, it is important that the ‘active listener’ is also ‘seen’ to be listening - otherwise the speaker may conclude that what they are talking about is uninteresting to the listener.

Use Simple Language

It’s important to remember the audience that you’re speaking to, and use language that can be easily understood. Avoid using medical terminology or jargon when speaking to clients and their families. People are often intimidated by such language, and can be afraid to admit that they don’t understand the message being delivered.

Give Constructive Feedback

Remember that feedback was part of the communication chain we looked at on the first page. While the feedback that you give the speaker/sender may occasionally be negative, it is important that it be constructive in nature. The intent of the feedback should be to further the abilities of the speaker. This will strengthen the interpersonal relationship, and enhance future communications.



Organizing your schedule and the tasks you need to complete is an important first step towards moving forward. It’s easy to get overwhelmed when you’re taking on more responsibility outside of your classes, therefore, being prepared proves to be extremely beneficial.


The contacts you are making now will ensure your career will thrive. Great opportunities come your way when you continuously cultivate the relationships within your network. It really is a small world, and you never know who you may end up working with.


The way you dress, behave and carry yourself as a person can make a lasting first impression. A well thought-out intro can establish you as a credible and knowledgeable business person, while a lackluster introduction can raise doubts about your professionalism.

Ways to Network in the Real World. Face-to-face Connections

Define your Goals

Networking takes time, so any business goal that needs to be met within 3 months through networking is usually unrealistic. Great opportunities come your way when you continuously cultivate the relationships within your network.

Identify your Targets

You don’t target a company – you target a person. Go narrow and deep (and also wide and broad), and find out who makes the decisions at the companies / communities you are targeting. One of the main components of the triumph is networking and taking advantage of every opportunity that comes your way.

Identify Your “Strategic Contacts”

“Strategic Contacts” are contacts who can provide introductions to your targets. Remember, online social networking may capture the lion’s share of attention nowadays, but the strongest bonds among people are still based on relationships established in the offline, physical world.

About us

Justina Plank a Counselling Psychologist at Catlarimore
She holds a Ph.D. in Psychology and Masters in Applied Psychology. Over the last 10 years, she has worked in the capacity of a counsellor, research scholar, editor, and lecturer. She help people cope with lifestyle changes, family issues, emotional issues, anger management, relationship issues, etc. She has conducted numerous online and offline workshop modules on communication.

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